For Ladies Golf Month, this post is dedicated to the ladies of ALL skill levels. Even if you have played for years, or have never played, there will be points here that will help your game or the way you go about some things. Whether you’re 7 or 70 years old, golf should ALWAYS be fun, and we should feel like we can still play better.
TAKE LESSONS FROM A GOLF PROFESSIONAL: Most ladies and girls start out the game with the help of their husband or father. While all mean well, they are not qualified to teach the game of golf. If you’ve heard the phrases “keep your head down”, “keep your left arm straight”, “keep your eye on the ball”, then you’re getting instruction that doesn’t help. Even if you’re keeping your head down long enough to see the grass grow, it doesn’t mean you’ll hit a good shot. You’ve invested money in clubs, greens fee/memberships, shoes, etc, so learn to things the right way. Good instructors have all the necessary video, monitors, swing trainers, etc to help YOU improve YOUR game.
YOUR EQUIPMENT MATTERS: You don’t have to spend thousands of dollars on your golf equipment. But you do need to have the RIGHT equipment that fits you. Length, weight, lie angle, shaft flex, etc all make a difference. One of my lady students started out like many golfers: She bought a used set from a friend at a good price. The lady who sold the set was about 5 feet tall; the new golfer that bought them was about 5 feet 6 inches tall. The new golfer figures she can learn to hit them, and she did. But the clubs made her set up in a way that she couldn’t swing efficiently, losing distance and accuracy. Again, a Golf Instructor will help you make sure you get the right clubs that fit your budget.
PRACTICE: Many ladies are intimidated about going to the driving range, and it’s understandable. But if you want to play better golf, you need to practice. Go to the very ends of the driving range teeing areas. On one end, everyone will have their backs to you, so they won’t see you. On the other end, your back is to them, so you won’t notice if anyone is watching. Chances are, nobody is paying attention to what you’re doing. They’re too busy trying to keep their head down!
PLAY REAL GOLF: Playing in scrambles is fun and can help you meet new people. However, scrambles don’t make you a better player. In a scramble, if you hit a bad shot, you usually don’t have to play it. Many of my lady golfers play mostly in couples scrambles and fundraisers. In these formats, the ladies don’t learn how to get out of trouble by themselves. The opportunities to hit bunker shots, sidehill lies, out of the rough, etc are much less. But when the lady goes out to play a random round with friends and they play their own ball, they’re not ready for the pitfalls of golf. Play real golf at least as much as you do scrambles.
HAVE FUN AND RELAX: If you’ve done all the things listed above, golf will be easier and more fun. There will always be good shots and bad shots. The more lessons and practice you’ve had, the more you know about YOUR game and tendencies, and how to fix things when your swing isn’t working on the golf course.
When I first started teaching golf 20 years ago, there were not many young ladies that went to the course, and the few that did, didn’t take lessons. Girls that played sports typically stuck with the popular sports like softball, basketball, and tennis. As title IX came more prominent, along with more courses being built and an explosion of golf on television, girl participation began to grow. Here are some of the reasons golf is so popular among girls.